
When the dream TEFL job goes pear-shaped
Sometimes it's as much about adapting as it is about teaching
Many foreign teachers arrive in Thailand full of optimism, excited about the prospect of working in an exotic new environment.
They may have secured what appears to be an ideal job: a teaching position at a reputable school, competitive pay by local standards, and the chance to immerse themselves in Thai culture.
But for some, the dream begins to unravel within the first few weeks. While every experience is unique, there are several common reasons why things can quickly turn sour for foreign teachers in Thailand.
Empty promises
One of the biggest issues is the disconnect between expectations and reality. Schools may promise certain working conditions, such as small class sizes, access to teaching resources, or a manageable workload. However, once the contract is signed and the teacher is in place, the reality may look very different. Teachers might find themselves handling overcrowded classrooms, receiving minimal support, or being asked to take on extra duties that weren’t clearly outlined beforehand. This mismatch can quickly lead to frustration and burnout.
Communication problems can also be a major source of stress. Thai schools often operate in ways that are heavily influenced by local cultural norms, which may be unfamiliar to foreign educators. Instructions from management might be vague or given at the last minute, and there is often an unspoken expectation to simply adapt without complaint. Teachers used to more structured environments may struggle with the lack of clarity, which can make it difficult to plan lessons effectively or feel secure in their role.
Instability and mistrust
Another frequent complaint is the inconsistent enforcement of contracts. Some teachers report delays in salary payments, deductions they didn’t expect, or changes to their schedules without prior notice. In certain cases, schools may not follow through on agreed-upon benefits like visa support, insurance, or paid holidays. This can create a sense of instability and mistrust, especially for teachers who have relocated from another country and depend on these assurances for their livelihood.
Cultural misunderstandings also play a part. What’s considered professional behavior in a teacher’s home country might be seen as inappropriate or disrespectful in Thailand and vice versa. Foreign teachers may unknowingly offend colleagues or parents, or feel confused by hierarchical dynamics where questioning authority is discouraged. Navigating these cultural differences requires patience and humility, but when guidance is lacking, even well-meaning teachers can find themselves in difficult situations.
Far from home
Finally, isolation can be a powerful factor. Being far from home, in an unfamiliar culture, and possibly lacking a strong support network, can take a toll on mental health. If the job begins to disappoint or cause stress, the sense of being trapped - especially with visa and housing obligations - can quickly overshadow the initial excitement.
In the end, success as a teacher in Thailand often depends as much on flexibility and cultural sensitivity as it does on professional qualifications.
While many foreign educators thrive and enjoy meaningful experiences, others discover that what seemed like a perfect opportunity is more complex than it first appeared. The key is preparation, asking the right questions before signing anything, and understanding that working abroad is as much about adapting as it is about teaching.
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In my experience most employers will exaggerate a bit to get you in through the door as we do on our CV's. Normally not a big problem comes with the territory!
Money, salary is a touchy subject. A lot of back street agency types had a bad rep for dicking you around with money. Most big companies are usually okay but sometimes mistakes happen.
Cultural misunderstandings. Let's call a spade a spade LIES. Yes, a get out clause for certain devious types. Though cases do happen but usually when disagreements happen this is the go-to face saving expression.
Yeah, stress happens even to the most seasoned pros but it's something you build up a tolerance to or develop coping strategies with time and experience.
We can use flowery language to gloss over everything, but the bottom line is you either sink or swim it's for you or not for you. Or as you said make sure you know what you're signing up for!
By Joe, Last seen with a Chang in my hand (26th May 2025)
This isn't only the case with English teaching jobs. With the proliferation of "International" schools here in Bangkok and the surrounds there have been a fair number of rogue employers too. Teachers being told that there is no tax to pay or that their housing allowance is separate to their wages or, sometimes, just completely inflated wage figures. If you get a good job these days you are as well off to keep your head down and not moan.
By Carl Gavin, Bangkok (24th May 2025)